Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Nissan Car Wash Event!
Heyaa! Do you have any plans for this coming weekends? No? Yeah, right. Nissan had it all planned for you! On the 1st and 2nd Aug, Nissan is greeting you with a charity car wash! Sound meaningful and interesting? Yes, it's definitely gonna be an exciting and fun event that you wouldn't want to miss out!
So, head down to http://creative.asiaone.com/2009/IA/nissancarwash_IA090630/activity.html now for more details on the charity event.
For registration, click here: http://creative.asiaone.com/2009/IA/nissancarwash_IA090630/index.html
See you guys there! ^^
Heyaa! Do you have any plans for this coming weekends? No? Yeah, right. Nissan had it all planned for you! On the 1st and 2nd Aug, Nissan is greeting you with a charity car wash! Sound meaningful and interesting? Yes, it's definitely gonna be an exciting and fun event that you wouldn't want to miss out!
So, head down to http://creative.asiaone.com/2009/IA/nissancarwash_IA090630/activity.html now for more details on the charity event.
For registration, click here: http://creative.asiaone.com/2009/IA/nissancarwash_IA090630/index.html
See you guys there! ^^
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Ripped it from Amanda's blog:
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth.
But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.
But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew.
I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release.
The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.
I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.
On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.
I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.
Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage.
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth.
But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.
But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew.
I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release.
The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.
I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.
On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.
I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.
Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Europhialley collection 6!
Yet again, Europhialley being efficient has once again launched their latest collection in less than a week time.
Here are my top picks in collection 6:
Sexya Dress. Simple, but yet did not lose the touch of woman's sexiness and femininity.
Black Ribbonate Dress. Corporate look, yet have a tinge of sweetness and cutesy.
Europhialley has also open backorders for the following items:
layer chiffon dress
sailor tee
Grab your last chance to have them in your wardrobe!
To look and feel good at Europhialley.
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Happy shopping girls!
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Europhialley collection 5!
I must say I really fancy Europhialley collection 5! Many of the apparels are so moi style. Teeheheeee. This time, they bring in a mixture of their usual sweetie/cutie pie wears and feminine/sexya wears too. And, what's more, with a very affordable price range, what is holding you back? Just a click away to get your favourite buys! So, wait no more, and go on to: http://europhialley.livejournal.com/ now!
My top 5 picks from collection 5!
floral off shoulder dress.
This is an absolute fabulous dress for work, ladies! Prior to that, if you're a floral prints and offshoulder lover like myself, then this dress is definitely gotta be in your wardrobe!
SWEET ROSA DRESS .
And, the usual sweetie pie wears brought to you by Europhialley! Fits in best for work and dinner dates!
MAKIYO OFF SHOULDER.
Apparently, this is so moi! It's love at first sight for me! Definitely gonna get my hands on this stunning piece!
Demin Halter dress
Simple yet stunning. Capable of bringing out the womanly/femininity side of you.
layer chiffon dress
Sexya dress. Best to flaunt it out on the dance floor. You got me! :D
So, hesitate no more and go on to http://europhialley.livejournal.com now for the most stunning great buys!
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
I must say I really fancy Europhialley collection 5! Many of the apparels are so moi style. Teeheheeee. This time, they bring in a mixture of their usual sweetie/cutie pie wears and feminine/sexya wears too. And, what's more, with a very affordable price range, what is holding you back? Just a click away to get your favourite buys! So, wait no more, and go on to: http://europhialley.livejournal.com/ now!
My top 5 picks from collection 5!
floral off shoulder dress.
This is an absolute fabulous dress for work, ladies! Prior to that, if you're a floral prints and offshoulder lover like myself, then this dress is definitely gotta be in your wardrobe!
SWEET ROSA DRESS .
And, the usual sweetie pie wears brought to you by Europhialley! Fits in best for work and dinner dates!
MAKIYO OFF SHOULDER.
Apparently, this is so moi! It's love at first sight for me! Definitely gonna get my hands on this stunning piece!
Demin Halter dress
Simple yet stunning. Capable of bringing out the womanly/femininity side of you.
layer chiffon dress
Sexya dress. Best to flaunt it out on the dance floor. You got me! :D
So, hesitate no more and go on to http://europhialley.livejournal.com now for the most stunning great buys!
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Taiwan 09 Day 1...
Gosh! I'm missing taipei so much now :(
I can't wait for another vacation trip! :( Next destination would... Shanghai? Hong kong/Macau? BKK? BKK gonna be on the top of the list, but I'm pretty sure that my dad will not grant me to travel to BKK. He said it's not safe over there =...(
Gonna insert peektures in between of words. Pardon me, being sucha a cam-whore :P
Flight by cathay pacific, in another word, transit has to be done in hongkong. Caught a couple of movies (handsome suite, bride wars etc) during the plane rides. I love it!
Orite, back track to taiwan trip day1, arrived at taipai airport in the early evening, cabbed down to our hotel; chairman hotel at ximending area, which costed us NT1200 (approx. sgd 60).
Headed down to ximending after a quick rest at the hotel, and woo, I spent hell lotsa over there (tried to curb my spending afterwhich :P) Stuffs were relatively cheap almost everywhere during that season (Late may-early june). I love shopping over there! Oh boy, I wish I'm still at taipei now!
landed...at taipei, taoyuan airport!
@ ximending & shilin night market...
Digs the lulaofan (minced meat rice)v much! missing it now T.T
Took a train down to shilin night market in the night, which operates from 6pm to 2am. There were lotsa of people when we arrived there at around 8pm, but, thanks god, the weather was doing us good, it was around 18degree. Totally adores the weather over there and detests sg weather to the max!
Some of buys on day1! I'm missing taipei so now! :(((
Gosh! I'm missing taipei so much now :(
I can't wait for another vacation trip! :( Next destination would... Shanghai? Hong kong/Macau? BKK? BKK gonna be on the top of the list, but I'm pretty sure that my dad will not grant me to travel to BKK. He said it's not safe over there =...(
Gonna insert peektures in between of words. Pardon me, being sucha a cam-whore :P
Flight by cathay pacific, in another word, transit has to be done in hongkong. Caught a couple of movies (handsome suite, bride wars etc) during the plane rides. I love it!
Orite, back track to taiwan trip day1, arrived at taipai airport in the early evening, cabbed down to our hotel; chairman hotel at ximending area, which costed us NT1200 (approx. sgd 60).
Headed down to ximending after a quick rest at the hotel, and woo, I spent hell lotsa over there (tried to curb my spending afterwhich :P) Stuffs were relatively cheap almost everywhere during that season (Late may-early june). I love shopping over there! Oh boy, I wish I'm still at taipei now!
landed...at taipei, taoyuan airport!
@ ximending & shilin night market...
Digs the lulaofan (minced meat rice)v much! missing it now T.T
Took a train down to shilin night market in the night, which operates from 6pm to 2am. There were lotsa of people when we arrived there at around 8pm, but, thanks god, the weather was doing us good, it was around 18degree. Totally adores the weather over there and detests sg weather to the max!
Some of buys on day1! I'm missing taipei so now! :(((
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Sony Ericsson Media Launch + Runwaydiva.lj!
Worked for Sony Ericsson at Red dot museum for their media launch on Aino phone. Aino phone is damn cool lah! I wanna bring it home! I LOVE sony ericsson phone can! Loathe using Nokia phone, which my cellphone brand is now. I would definitely give up my pay for that day for Aino phone! That cellphone, which is not officially launched yet in the market.
I had plentiful of fun working the girls. We had hours of break before we had to standby to welcome the media and guests.
With Kris and Jessebelle during rehearsal...
Lazed at pacific cafe during our 3 hours of break...
The gluttons and their cheesecake.
With Oli Pettigrew! The host of AXN Sony Magazine. He's so damn cute lah!!!
Runwaydiva's latest collection!
Did a shoot with them last Wed, and I must really compliment the quality of the apparels for this collection. I adore the below items the most!
Nice? Trust me, the quality and workmanship of these apparels are really good. You gotta grab them fast before the stocks run out!
Grab them at runwaydiva.livejournal.com now!
Now, I've gotta run to prepare for my shoot with them later!
Bye!
Worked for Sony Ericsson at Red dot museum for their media launch on Aino phone. Aino phone is damn cool lah! I wanna bring it home! I LOVE sony ericsson phone can! Loathe using Nokia phone, which my cellphone brand is now. I would definitely give up my pay for that day for Aino phone! That cellphone, which is not officially launched yet in the market.
I had plentiful of fun working the girls. We had hours of break before we had to standby to welcome the media and guests.
With Kris and Jessebelle during rehearsal...
Lazed at pacific cafe during our 3 hours of break...
The gluttons and their cheesecake.
With Oli Pettigrew! The host of AXN Sony Magazine. He's so damn cute lah!!!
Runwaydiva's latest collection!
Did a shoot with them last Wed, and I must really compliment the quality of the apparels for this collection. I adore the below items the most!
Nice? Trust me, the quality and workmanship of these apparels are really good. You gotta grab them fast before the stocks run out!
Grab them at runwaydiva.livejournal.com now!
Now, I've gotta run to prepare for my shoot with them later!
Bye!
Monday, July 13, 2009
Europhialley updated again!
Europhialley with their 4th collection, all the apparels are again below SGD 25! Free normal postage for everyone! Ain't this a great deal or what??? So, wait no more, with your fastest fingers and goes on to http://europhialley.livejournal.com/ now!
Their 4th collection is more of the cutie pie, lovely look range. Caters to girls who are young and young at heart! And, here are my top picks:
Go on to http://europhialley.livejournal.com/ now to get yours now!!!
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
Europhialley with their 4th collection, all the apparels are again below SGD 25! Free normal postage for everyone! Ain't this a great deal or what??? So, wait no more, with your fastest fingers and goes on to http://europhialley.livejournal.com/ now!
Their 4th collection is more of the cutie pie, lovely look range. Caters to girls who are young and young at heart! And, here are my top picks:
Go on to http://europhialley.livejournal.com/ now to get yours now!!!
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
http://europhialley.livejournal.com/
Sunday, July 12, 2009
The many dates with the loverboy...
Walking down the memory lane...I reminisced the many dates we went since couple of weeks back. Hadn't been blogging about my daily life as I had been really held up with my work. How I wish i do not have to work, however, thinking of the school fee I have to fork out in a couple of months really fears me and left me with no other alternative but to keep slogging. & I had so many "wants" in my needs and wants list! Such as, a new laptop (my laptop is seriously pissing me off big time, always dies on me at the most crucial time), ds lite etc etc...
SIGH! I wanna spend more time with my mummy, my family, bbyboy and gfs!!!
If only I have more than 24hrs/day!
Oh well...
Gonna insert more pics than words now...
Baby specially made a dinner arrangement on our 22nd monthsary at Scarlet hotel, the breeze. Foods were not bad, but in my opinion they were a lil' overpriced. Ambiance was rather good too. A good venue for chilling out and dinner dates :)
The European design restroom. I love it! It's so so nice! Simply adores European style!
The breeze, situated at the hotel roof top.
boy's beef skewer. It's really nice and tender!
My filo salmon. I do not fancy it, so baby offered to exchange his dish with mine. Teeeheehehe
The bill came up to a grand total of $83 for 2 mains and a snack (fries&wedges). Freaking expensive can! No second time.
The midnight desserts for my acting up sweet tooth. I digs macaroons!!!
It was just another Saturday morning, we drove out to have brunch and some groceries shopping on my staple snacks. Such simple dates warm my heart up. Nothing beats than walking down the street hand-in-hand with you. *ignore stares*
Had brunch at HK cafe. Digs the cheap baked rice over there!
Worn the lovely sponsor dress from thestagewalk.lj out to casting, and I got in!
Head down to thestagewalk.lj for more gorgeous and great buys now!
thestagewalk.lj
thestagewalk.lj
thestagewalk.lj
I need a change of my blogskin! I need help for it! If you do know of any nice blogskin and layout and is willing to help/assist me in it, please do not hesitate to email me @ myconceal@gmail.com!
Thank you!
Walking down the memory lane...I reminisced the many dates we went since couple of weeks back. Hadn't been blogging about my daily life as I had been really held up with my work. How I wish i do not have to work, however, thinking of the school fee I have to fork out in a couple of months really fears me and left me with no other alternative but to keep slogging. & I had so many "wants" in my needs and wants list! Such as, a new laptop (my laptop is seriously pissing me off big time, always dies on me at the most crucial time), ds lite etc etc...
SIGH! I wanna spend more time with my mummy, my family, bbyboy and gfs!!!
If only I have more than 24hrs/day!
Oh well...
Gonna insert more pics than words now...
Baby specially made a dinner arrangement on our 22nd monthsary at Scarlet hotel, the breeze. Foods were not bad, but in my opinion they were a lil' overpriced. Ambiance was rather good too. A good venue for chilling out and dinner dates :)
The European design restroom. I love it! It's so so nice! Simply adores European style!
The breeze, situated at the hotel roof top.
boy's beef skewer. It's really nice and tender!
My filo salmon. I do not fancy it, so baby offered to exchange his dish with mine. Teeeheehehe
The bill came up to a grand total of $83 for 2 mains and a snack (fries&wedges). Freaking expensive can! No second time.
The midnight desserts for my acting up sweet tooth. I digs macaroons!!!
It was just another Saturday morning, we drove out to have brunch and some groceries shopping on my staple snacks. Such simple dates warm my heart up. Nothing beats than walking down the street hand-in-hand with you. *ignore stares*
Had brunch at HK cafe. Digs the cheap baked rice over there!
Worn the lovely sponsor dress from thestagewalk.lj out to casting, and I got in!
Head down to thestagewalk.lj for more gorgeous and great buys now!
thestagewalk.lj
thestagewalk.lj
thestagewalk.lj
I need a change of my blogskin! I need help for it! If you do know of any nice blogskin and layout and is willing to help/assist me in it, please do not hesitate to email me @ myconceal@gmail.com!
Thank you!
